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Entrepreneurs Worst Fears
Everyone I have ever talked to that is an entrepreneur has had
to come face to face with their fears. I have had to as well. I
want to share with you some of the techniques that I have used
to face them. The first step is not to be in denial. You have
fears even if you don’t readily acknowledge them. They
sometimes take the form of that chatter in the back of your
head that says you can’t do it
Fear is such a huge issue preventing people from becoming
entrepreneurs. I have heard from the CEO of a real-estate based
network marketing company that even though he has people
packing out company seminars, that maybe 2-5% of people will
actually go out and apply the knowledge by putting offers on
real estate. He is convinced that the rest are paralyzed by
fear.
Here are some of the techniques I have used as I learned them
from the entrepreneurs I know:
Think about what you do want. When you find yourself spinning
the wheels in your mind over and again about your worst case
scenario, turn it around and focus on what you DO want.
Visualize yourself getting what you do want. See the new house.
See yourself talking to the interested person as they become a
part of your business. You get what you focus on.
Change the voice. When you hear yourself telling you that
you’re not good enough - you’re going to fail. Just change the
voice from yours to that of Mickey Mouse or Jim Cary or
something that would hold little weight with you anyway! Who
cares if Mickey Mouse thinks you’re not good enough? Is Mickey
Mouse an entrepreneur?
Voice them to a trusted friend or associate. Hopefully you have
been able to find some level of support from at least one other
entrepreneur. Ideally, you have a significant other that
supports you. If not, then you should have some kind of support
network from your team, upline, or corporate that you can talk
to. Some people may tell you that it is silly you could even
believe that you’re not good enough. For me, my S/O has been a
constant source of support. However, don’t go looking for
support to all those people who doubted you and told you it was
crazy to go out on your own. They will never understand the
entrepreneur.
Have a personal development library. I draw tremendous support
from my library. It is not just filled with how to resources,
but also stories of others who conquered their fears. I
couldn’t begin to list the many sources I have, but if you
email me I can recommend something based on your own
description of your circumstances.
Go ahead and do it. Sometimes just making the smallest step
will help get you going enough that the fear of not doing
something can go away. An example would be neglecting to write
an article such as this one out of fear of failure. Just
starting it can create enough momentum to see it
through.Visualize the result, but make the action the goal.
There is a subtle difference here for the entrepreneur. Of
course you want the result, but maybe that’s not in your direct
control. Visualize the result in your mind, but make your goal
the consistent and persistent action of the entrepreneur. The
action will eventually produce the result and you can certainly
achieve that goal. Never, ever quit. I hate to even use that q
word. If you do quit, you cease to be an entrepreneur -
otherwise you’re not beaten, you are moving ahead!
by Dorene Jones, PHR -
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